Poll: Is there a fundamental difference between trans-kids and late transitioning adults?

by Felix Conrad - Clinical Philosopher February 26, 2016

This week I’ve been listening to the podcast “How to be a girl” about a single mother raising a 6 year old trans girl. The episode that particularly interested me was about the different ways she and her husband dealt with the discovery that they had a transgender girl (they got divorced right at the […]

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6 different types of people who visit this site…

by Editorial Board February 17, 2016

If you haven’t done the test, don’t spoil the results by looking at this page. Click on the image below and do the test. Of course, there are individuals who don’t neatly fit into any of these categories, but broadly speaking – here are the 5 types of readers who visit this blog. Below each […]

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Transwomen need to stop humiliating themselves with the AGP debate

by Electra L February 13, 2016

This article is in response to Contrapoint’s rebuttal of Blanchard’s theory. I will argue that transwomen should consider such theories beneath them…and not worthy of serious consideration. Support Contrapoints on Patreon I have a theory about the the theory of autogynephilia which I want you to take note of… …that if it wasn’t for transwomen […]

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Transgender vlogger misses point of the #metoo movement

by Electra L January 26, 2016

I’ve always liked transgender vlogger, Elle Bradford… but I think that her latest video is fucked up. She goes to the trouble of making a #metoo video, thus assuring a certain amount of publicity and interest…but doesn’t name the famous Youtuber who harassed her. Her argument for not doing so is that… “Maybe he was […]

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TEST: Am I really a sissy?

by Electra L January 17, 2016

This sissy test is for fun and further thought. Please share your reactions and ideas on some of the issues raised in describing crossdreamer / transgender issues BUT PLEASE DON’T BE ANGRY (I cry easily!) My intention is to inspire people from online sissy communities to think about their sexuality and/ or gender.

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Life as a transgender escort

by Electra L January 11, 2016

So, you’ve told your parents, you’ve seen your doctor, you’ve splashed out on a new wardrobe and now you transition. But then what? In the case the of two transgender women in this video, you become an escort. There’s a fascinating quote at the beginning of the video where Mia says that she sees escorting […]

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What’s sex like after SRS surgery?

by Electra L January 11, 2016

I know a lot of crossdreamers who fantasize about having a vagina. That’s why I thought I’d post 3 videos I just watched on what it’s like for a transgender woman to have sex post SRS. Tell me if you think the fantasy will match the reality. The second video is from Caro who is […]

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Addiction and Gender Dysphoria

by Editorial Board January 8, 2016

It’s impossible to understand what’s happening with your life (or your gender) if you’re an addict. Addiction constantly gets in the way of any process of self examination or any program of self-improvement you try to initiate. That’s why you need to overcome your addiction to overcome gender dysphoria. A great place to start is […]

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New book definitively disproves autogynephilia

by Editorial Board December 28, 2015

Dear Felix, Please help me. I’m trans and I want to transition. No, I don’t want to – I need to – because if I have to carry on living a lie I don’t want to live. My family is Muslim and I know my parents will suffer when they find out, but I am […]

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Let’s give Anne Lawrence the praise – and the slap – she deserves…

by Felix Conrad - Clinical Philosopher December 20, 2015

This morning I was chastised by Fiona for subscribing to the views of Anne Lawrence. In my opinion, the subject of Anne Lawrence raises an important point for the philosophy of our community. Men Trapped in Men’s Bodies should not have been published in its current form. The editor should have insisted the author add […]

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The 5 most important questions about crossdreaming!

by Felix Conrad - Clinical Philosopher December 18, 2015

As I walked the streets of New York on Friday, I was doing what most biological men do as they walk around the city: admiring the architecture and admiring the women. However, my feelings with respect to these women were different to other men. Being crossdreamy not only leads to sexological differences…but to a whole series of […]

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Couples therapy: 5 strategies for guys with CROSSGENDER fantasies

by Felix Conrad - Clinical Philosopher December 4, 2015

(This article is more aimed at couples where crossgender fantasies are causing a problem – not those couples who enjoy them.) This is the first of 3 articles on behaviour which couples often denote as ‘transvestite’ or ‘autogynephiliac’. The following podcast provides excellent context as a young couple discuss the consequences of John’s ‘sissy’ kink. […]

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