Couples therapy: 5 strategies for guys with CROSSGENDER fantasies

by Felix Conrad - Clinical Philosopher on December 4, 2015

(This article is more aimed at couples where crossgender fantasies are causing a problem – not those couples who enjoy them.) This is the first of 3 articles on behaviour which couples often denote as ‘transvestite’ or ‘autogynephiliac’. The following podcast provides excellent context as a young couple discuss the consequences of John’s ‘sissy’ kink. […]


Sexual signs… 1) An excessive sexual interest in female clothing – especially super feminine items like lingerie and items made of fabrics usually reserved for females: satin etc. 2) An elevated interest in pegging or other sexual activities where he is submissive. A tendency to lie on his back and open his legs like a […]


7. Transgender or transvestite?

by Electra L on August 21, 2014

Attire: a body for hire FETISHIST POSITION: “I understand that clothes can turn a cis woman on… like lingerie for example… but only because they signal impending sexual experience. There’s no doubt, however, that many of your so called ‘transgender’ people are simply transvestites… who get turned on – without any other sexual partners involved […]


How to tell your girlfriend or wife that you are a crossdresser i.e. a crossdreamer

by Felix Conrad - Clinical Philosopher on June 17, 2014

Attention: this post is in response to an e-mail request. It is about telling your girlfriend that it turns you on to dress like a woman. It assumes you understand that ‘crossdresser’ and ‘transvestite’ are misnomers for the real force at work: crossdreaming – arousal at the idea of oneself as a woman. Dear Felix, […]


Eddie Izzard appeared on Bill Maher’s show on Saturday and made a comment which caught my attention. Bill mentioned performing in ‘women’s clothes’ and Eddie said… ‘Well, I don’t see them as women’s clothes anymore…there just clothes.’ This statement contains an interesting irony for the crossdreamer: that if women’s clothes ceased to be women’s clothes […]

{ 1 comment }