Sexual Behaviour

Is autogynephilia a fetish?

by Transcend Everything January 3, 2015

‘Fetish’ is an extremely unhelpful word. It is not a neutral, scientific word, but a term that comes loaded with baggage, and to most people is a synonym of ‘perversion.’ Therefore, even if it was technically correct to say that femephilia is a fetish I would eliminate the term from any dialogue around femephilia. However, […]

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The Psychology of Cuckolding: 5 reasons why a man watches his wife with another man…

by Felix Conrad December 27, 2014

1. Because the husband wishes he was in the wife’s place i.e – he’s a crossdreamer. Crossdreamers are men who get turned on by thinking of themselves as women. This may involve fantasies of complete female embodiment or something partial like wearing women’s underwear. The crossdreamer is technically heterosexual but also dreams of being a […]

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Understanding fetishes: Why is latex so sexy?

by Felix Conrad December 11, 2014

Is it just me…or are women wearing latex all the time? Everywhere I go I see women in the street in PVC leggings and leather skirts and vinyl trousers. Not that I’m complaining! It does make me think, though (in between my admiring stares) what are the origins of our latex fetish and… why is […]

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Is this all a fetish… or am I really transgender?

by Electra L September 24, 2014

For all the talk of how enlightened and gender fluid young people are, Electra still sees a fundamental lack of understanding about cross gender fantasy. Today she discusses a common Reddit post. The Context Every week, a teenager or twenty-something posts on Reddit about how wearing women’s clothes and imagining they have a female body […]

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The psychology of forced feminization

by Felix Conrad September 24, 2014

Editor’s note 1: If you’ve never encountered the term – ‘crossdreaming’ – then go back a step and understand your impulse towards the feminine. Read this article… Editor’s note 2: This article is focused on trans readers and forced fem fantasies. If you are looking for a straightforward analysis of ‘sissy sexuality’, jump to the […]

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3. Unified Transgender Theory – an introduction to cross-gender arousal

by Electra L August 26, 2014

Cross gender arousal – The elephant in the room   You’ve all got it wrong. Whatever you think it is… femephilia, autogynephilia, cross gender arousal… you’re all barking up the wrong tree. You see, like some kind of fetishists – everybody is fixated on the transformation thing; on the ‘crossing’ gender; on the love of […]

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6. Transgender females and transformation

by Editorial Board August 23, 2014

A fetish for transformation… or a simple case of correction? All sexual fantasies begin with a leap of the imagination; a leap that involves transporting oneself to another place – the setting of the fantasy. Imagine a woman with a really sexy boss, for example; every time she fantasises about her boss she transports herself […]

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8. The Exotic aspects of transgender sexuality

by Electra L August 21, 2014

Forced feminisation is forced upon us Of all the fantasies experienced by some transgender people (pre-transition) the most difficult to understand is forced feminisation. In these fantasies the crossdreamer is forced by a dominant man or woman to dress/behave like a female and perform sex acts. But of course, it’s only hard to understand if […]

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9. Conclusion – transgender fantasy

by Electra L August 18, 2014

Conclusion There are various transphobic groups that will always obsess over the minutiae of transgender fantasy… looking for differences between them and the fantasies of a ‘real woman’. And guess what… they’ll find them… because they exist. Far from indicating  anomaly and invalidation, however, such differences are to be expected. Our sexual experiences have to […]

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Is there a cure for autogynephilia?

by Editorial Board February 5, 2014

If you are looking for a cure for autogynephilia I would ask you: is there a cure for heterosexuality? Is there a cure for being gay? To the best of my knowledge all previous attempts in history to ‘cure’ sexual inclinations have failed. The one that comes to mind is electric shock therapy… used on homeosexual men […]

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Was Blanchard right when he said that “Autogynephilia competes with heterosexuality”?

by Editorial Board November 28, 2013

When Blanchard said that Autogynephilia competed with heterosexuality he was making a very Blanchard-like statement. For him, autogynephilia was an aberration while heterosexuality was a God-given behavior that nature intended for us, so it was inevitable he would frame any relationship between the two as an ongoing fight for the heart and soul of the […]

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The cause of autogynephilia: erotic target location errors

by Felix Conrad July 31, 2013

One of the most popular hobbies amongst transgender folk is the ancient art of Blanchard bashing. In its spontaneous form it can involve nothing more than a conversation in which the autogynephilia theory proposed by sexologist, Raymond Blanchard, is vigorously criticised. In the future, though – when raving transsexuals finally take over the world – […]

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